The question isn't whether you've been initiated, or not.
Life initiates you, it's happening!
It can happen when you're 14, 24, or 42 years old. It usually begins with a crisis, or call to action.
The key question is...
What to do when life is initiating you up hard, up the ass?!
There was once a time when men who were being initiated by life had a support structure, a "sacred space" and wise men to see him through the transition.
Today, there is no support, no sympathy and no new perspectives for the man in need.
He will either "man up and do the right thing", or he might blow his brains out with revolver, like so many white men in America do.
What men need today is a return to the initiation ritual, meaningful rights of passage, and a sacred space for becoming whole again, united within.
When we are united within, strength and stability is restored. There heightened sense of meaning, and devotion to our mission in life.
There is more trust, more calm, and more love in our lives.